Seven Steps For Wine Touring When You Have Children

The following article was written by Ryan Messer. Read other articles from Messer here

Some wine-loving parents think they have to give up wine touring when they have children or at least have to leave the kids at home. You don’t. Wine touring with children can be done, and with a little pre-planning, it can even be enjoyable for all. Below are seven steps to help think about wine touring when you have children in tow.

Step 1 - Have a Designated Driver

This is obviously good to have any time you're out tasting, assuming you’re not spitting, but it's imperative when traveling with the little ones for all of the obvious reasons.

Step 2 - Sell it to the kids

There are multiple ways to tackle any of the objections your children may throw in your direction. The first is to invite other friends with children, as misery loves company. I'm also a fan of bribery. I can't count how many times I have uttered the words, "If you're good boys while we are out today, I'll buy you (insert necessary item here)". I know that may not be the best parenting habit, but it is a tool in the toolbox if needed.

Step 3 - Bring lots of entertainment options

The age of your children will dictate what to bring. I have a three and a half year old son and another that is nearly eight. Their interests are quite different. My recommendation is to overpack for the occasion for each child. Books, coloring books, Legos, action figures or dolls would be a good start. Electronics like a Nintendo DS or an iPad with a couple movies will definitely help. Additionally, if the property is large enough to accommodate, a Frisbee, football or soccer ball are great choices for outdoor enjoyment.

Step 4 – Make sure you have enough food and beverages with you

Pack an ice chest with sandwiches, snacks, bottled water, juice boxes, etc. Make sure to stay away from too much sugar as a child bouncing off the walls of a car will try everyone's patience. If you have multiple children, bring identical snack items so the kids won't fight over who gets what.

Step 5 – Identify kid-friendly tasting rooms in advance

Aside from securing your driver, the most important piece of the puzzle is to find appropriate tasting rooms to travel to with children. Not all will allow underage guests on the premises, but I have found very few of those actually. Additionally, some tasting rooms are far better equipped for children than others. In Washington, Prosser is probably the best overall tasting area to visit with children we have found over the years. There are numerous wineries within walking distance to each other, separated by huge lawns that are great for playing. Other areas can vary greatly, so you’ll need to do your homework and explore the surroundings.

Check out their websites in advance for wineries you are interested in visiting. Many will include photos of the facility which can help you make your determination about how suitable it is. When in doubt, give the tasting room a call and find out if they have a policy or preference.

Step 6 - Keep an eye on the kids!

My children do not always wish to join us in the tasting room, so what becomes a key factor to me is the parking and surrounding area to keep a watchful eye on them. Occasionally, if we are close enough and within direct line of sight, we allow our children to sit in the car if they so desire. That's a decision you have to make when you arrive at your destination. Just be very cognizant of the weather outside, as there are times it can obviously be too hot or too cold to even consider this option. And, of course, under no circumstances keep the car running with your children in it unattended.

If your children do accompany you into the tasting room, the two main concerns are breakable items and other guests. A busy tasting day will includes dozens, if not hundreds of wine glasses nearby to tip over and break. No one wants that. And as you are intending to enjoy your day, so are the other guests, some of whom have inevitably left children behind for a little escape. Be mindful of allowing them to enjoy their day to the same level as you. Don’t let your children become their problem!

Step 7 – Relax and enjoy yourself

You’re out in wine country so make sure to relax and have a good time. Trust me, you won't be a bad parent for taking your children tasting with you. With a little planning, it can be fun for all. Just make sure to leave room in the car for your wine purchases!

Leave comments below with what you have found has worked/hasn’t when you’ve been out wine touring with your children. Also feel free to mention specific Northwest wineries you have found that are kid-friendly.

Sean P. Sullivan


  1. We have started to offer Wine Country Soda Tasting (Chardonnay, Rose and Pinot Noir) at our tasting room for children and non-alcoholic consumers. We discovered this concept while tasting in CA with my two boys and they loved it.

  2. Or there's the option I always used - get a babysitter! Adult activities are better for adults. If I'm at a tasting room and there are children not being quiet/behaving, I leave.

  3. I used to agree with Stuart. Then I had kids.

  4. I have 4 kids. It's actually better to bring them when they get older. Then you can teach them about wine before they are old enough to drink it. No cheap stuff in college! :-)

  5. Start them early. My kids have been to wineries in California, Washington, Piedmont, Veneto, and Burgundy. They go where we go. When they act well behaved, they are rewarded. I recently went to the release party at Betz Family Cellars and my girls (5 & 8 years old) were standing in the corner talking to each other and Bob Betz came over to the girls and talked to them for a few minutes.

    My kids know what acceptable behavior is and what isn't and going to winery isn't any different than taking them to a nice restaurant.

  6. All laws pertaining to children within tasting rooms are discriminatory toward children and anti-family due to children being considered a protected class under adult supervision. Since children are not of legal age to consent, the rules and regulations involving children in so-called adult-only venues is actually discriminating against the adults and therefore in violation of federal civil rights law. Antiquated blue laws in backward states conflict with many laws allowing parents to serve alcohol to their own children. No children allowed bias are remnants of old 1980's statutes struck down by the Supreme Court as unconstitutional, but reinstated by an aging Joneser generation and pushed by a confused Generation X. It's time to end this Dark Ages mentality and begin behaving like a culture firmly entrenched in the 21st century.